As we get ready to say goodbye to 2018 and hello to 2019 it makes us think what we want to change for the upcoming year. Eat better? Go to church? Lose weight? Find your soul mate? Read the bible? Be a better wife, daughter, child, friend, person.
I have goals for myself. Get to the gym. Spend more time with family. Spend more time in the word and with God. As much as I want these goals, sadly I know that come February/March- I will probably be right back in the same place I am in now. And everyone around me will say “yup. I knew they were just those New Year, New Me Goals.”.
I don’t want that. I don’t want just those new years resolution goals. I don’t want to be one of those people that come January 1st I am at the gym rearing to be healthy and then come March, I would rather sleep in or go to bed early.
I want to be that person who changes her life. I don’t want the goals to be just because its new years. I want them to be to better myself.
How do you differentiate between true life changes and just those yearly “new years resolutions”?
I am struggling with that right now. In my heart, I know myself and now that I will slack. But I want more. I want to be a better me.
I need to be held accountable. I need something more.
How do you make your goals reality and not just a pin up on your dream board?
Overthinking Mama 